It’s that time again: http://www.cwtv.com/shows/americas-next-top-model!

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I just got published in the June issue of Playgirl Magazine! Check it out — it’s on a newsstand near you. My article, “When Vibrators Attack,” is advice for the sex-toy sensitive. Some pleasure products are made with chemicals that can cause sensitivities and very unpleasurable reactions! It’s a buyer beware situation, and hopefully, armed […]

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10. Mid-term elections - delightful news, for the most part!
9. The world premiere of my film, On My Skin/ En Mi Piel
8. The world premiere of my fiancée’s film, FtF: Female to Femme
7. Getting published in Nobody Passes!
6. Getting published in Curve, ColorLines, and American Sexuality
5. Pink’s song - poignant, heart-breaking, and ever-important as a […]

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The Garden State is doing a kick-butt job of making laws! Check out this info, from the National Center for Transgender Equality.
Also, much appreciation to my sexuality scholar friend Melita, a leading expert on all things having to do with polyamory, for alerting me to this opportunity for peace activism.

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I have a new article out in Curve Magazine! It’s my first time getting something published in their delightful pages, and I couldn’t be more honored. The article is about my favorite toy store, Babeland, and all the fabulous work that they do. Did you know that Babeland is the second-largest lesbian-owned company in the […]

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How appropriate for the Valentine’s season! A friend of mine is one of the instructors of what’s sure to be a fabulous class:
Men,
Here’s your opportunity to… become an extraordinary lover!
* Understand women’s sexual desires
* Drive women wild
* Expand your sexual skills
* Utilize practical techniques that will make her want more!
In this hands-on, explicit, practical, […]

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As a Jew who was born on the first night of Hanukah, I’m happy that my Jewish birthday is right around the corner. Tomorrow, I’ll be enjoying the best of the season with my family on the East Coast, in the company of this lovely woman.
This journal will be back next week…

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If my years working at Good Vibrations taught me anything, it’s the value of creating a female-friendly environment for sex toy shopping. So, I wrote an article about it, for ASB Magazine! This is a trade magazine for the adult retail market, and the latest issue just arrived hot off the presses. Imagine a country […]

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I saw a notice in the San Francisco Bay Guardian that a group of dancers from the Gold Club have filed a lawsuit against the club.
From the time that I first moved to San Francisco, in 1997, I have been hearing dancers from various strip clubs around the city talk about being required to work […]

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I’m excited to see that Size Queen is getting some press.

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